Yeah, as a general rule, I tend to be pretty forgiving. It's not been easy, but - certainly as far as Jane's been concerned - I just had to learn to let go and not hang on to any negativity. That's sort of been something I try to apply to all my relationships.
What I'm less good at is the forgetting bit. So although I've forgiven some folks, I still remember their negative actions towards me which hurts sometimes.